Mary,
I've got to chime in with JWROBIE. When I decided to buy a sailboat I was pleasantly surprised that I had a new hobby (Hobie) that my wife would participate in. Even though she doesn't like heavy wind, she enjoys the relaxation and quietness of sailing. In the light winds I enjoy maximizing my efficiency. I think this forum is not just about racing. I enjoy racing, cruising and fun sailing. I think that is what this forum is about.
Greg
H14,H16