Hey Mary, not trying to fan the fire here, but why not ?
Why not team up with your husband for this event. I'm guessing it has been a while since.
There are several other newbies on F16's down there so this event will not be too serious hard-core racing.
Besides there are several other male-female crews out there with you. Several husband-wife teams even so I'm sure they'll understand any unintended fireworks.
I must say this years GYC invitations is really looking to become as extremely enjoyable both on the water and at the bar. The ratio of Gals and Boys is rather good and that is always a good garantee for some memorable moments.
Wouter
Wouter Hijink Formula 16 NED 243 (one-off; homebuild) The Netherlands