Ah.. So young and naive. Just remember... Your anniversary date last forever. (or that is the plan) I'm sure she is cool with sailing and loves your friends now. So did my wife and she still is cool and loves my sailing friends. But when you are 40 something and you want to go sailing and leave her with the kids on your anniversary (let's say your 10th or 20th) Do you really think that will fly? Like I said, Priorities will change as you get older and if you Plan well now, you will never have to worry about it later. You will not have to think... she'll probably want to go too.