Why? No redeeming character traits in either!
My life has been anything but pristine. I am 14 years clean and sober and I did not change direction because life was going well or my atitude was all love etc.
BUT, when I was running amock I needed a rock bottom and pandering to her won't help us.
I am clear that her personal journey is not our business but driving drunk and then not obeying the court and then driving wrecklessly risks lives.
When I was a nutter I needed redirection for the public good and so does anyone else.