If your not in control you shouldn't be helming a boat,PERIOD.
If being out of control is part of your plan of attack than you need practice and maybe turn it down a notch.Generally, ragged edge of control is not fast.
Man, it must feel great to be -so good- that you never once, never in your life, had a rudder stall out when trying to gybe in a hellacious puff...
Wow, I can only hope to be that good someday. Until then I guess I'd better stay on shore any time the wind comes up or is forecast to come up...