The part I missed saying in the previous post is perhaps all of you who have kids should also get them involved in this, it is after all their boat and what they will sail and much to my amazement, they actually know exactly what they want, all they need is the technical help to make it happen.
As John my 7 year old observed after he looked at this forum (with lots of reading help from me) people sure write a lot and do very little.
Aerynt